LGBTA Resources + Information

LGBTA Resources + Information Safe Zone

When a Person Tells You they are Gay



The Safe Zone program is in a period of transition. Started by students in 2004, the program is moving to a new administrative home. We hope to expand the program and ensure its longevity. Check back for more information.

The LGBTQ person is apt to have spent many hours in thoughtful preparation and shares the information with a keen awareness of the possible risk. There is no way for the LGTBQ person to predict your reaction accurately.

Things you should do:

Understand that the LGBTQ person is still the same person you knew before

Be sure that your questions are not inappropriate, especially in light of the context your relationship

Be honest and open with your feelings. Share them with the person, even if they are not necessarily positive, but also admitting those feelings may change after time passes.